I'm drawn to men who are more intense than the people around them, and I'm more intense than they are.
I collect experiences most people never have:
conflict that feels real,
jealousy we both enjoy,
texting that would never survive daylight.
If you need things to be normal, close this page.
What people don't expect is how much I notice.
I read a room before I've taken my coat off: who's lying, who's bored, who's about to leave. I can tell you what you're hiding by the second drink, and I'm usually right. I collect strange history, unsolved stories and the psychology of why people follow rules nobody enforces.
The danger is the fun part. The attention is the real thing.
What can happen
- 01I break the unwritten rules of a nice restaurant. Dessert first. I switch seats with you halfway through. I toast to something no one else at the table would dare say out loud. You pretend this is normal.
- 02I read you in the first five minutes, and I tell you exactly what I see. I'm usually right. You'll want to know how.
- 03We turn it into us against them. It starts as whispers about the room. By dessert, the whole table can feel it.
- 04We fight. We make up. We fight again. Then I say goodbye like I mean it, until next time.
- 05I stare at you at the most inappropriate moments. Mid-toast. Mid-sentence. During your call. You'll wonder what I'm thinking. Don't ask.
- 06We admit we've both been bored by everyone else, and see what two strange, sophisticated minds can make happen with one evening.
- 07I storm out of the restaurant mid-sentence, like a scene in a film. It's a bit, and you'll know it. Come find me at the bar around the corner. I'll have already ordered for you.
- 08Some days I'm not in the mood to be intense. Then you just get me, quiet and curious. That counts too.
None of this comes with expectations. Sex isn't the point. The dynamic is.
Everything a polite date would never do.
That's exactly what you're paying for.
And afterward, I'm the softest person you've ever met.
Rates
- Dinner · three hours
- $2,000
- An evening · five hours
- $3,000
- Extended · twelve hours
- $5,000
- Longer than twelve hours
- Bespoke
- Overnights, weekends & travel
- Bespoke
A 25% deposit confirms. Travel is covered separately. Rates are not negotiated.
The Application
This is for men with perfect control who want to lose it with me, and only with me.
We start softly, and nicely.
It escalates until one of us slows it down, or keeps the tension without raising it.
If you can't play hard and stop cleanly, don't apply.
The first time, we meet in public, and you are respectful. One wrong signal and it's over.
A deposit confirms every date. Screening is required. The first meeting is always in public.
Received.
If you are accepted, you will hear from me within seven days. If you don't, that is your answer.
Apply first. Unsolicited messages are not answered.
- medeavex@proton.me
- Signal
- Shared after screening
- Based
- Boston · New York · travels
One line when I'm in New York. Nothing else. Reply "stop" and you're gone.